avformat: AviSynth demuxer rewrite

The main rewrite was authored by d s <avxsynth.testing@gmail.com>
from the AvxSynth team, with additional contributions by

Oka Motofumi <chikuzen.mo@gmail.com>
Stephen Hutchinson <qyot27@gmail.com>

Directly loads AviSynth through LoadLibrary instead of relying on
Video for Windows, and supports using AvxSynth (via dlopen) to
open scripts on Linux and OS X.

Error messages from AviSynth/AvxSynth are now reported through
av_log and exit, rather than the traditional behavior of generating
an error video that the user would need to watch to diagnose.