gtk2: don't eat KeyUp if KeyPress event has handled a key - a part of fix for TMemo.WantReturns

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qt: don't skip Enter,Return,Backspace for UTF8KeyPress as other widgetsets does not do so

git-svn-id: http://svn.freepascal.org/svn/lazarus/trunk@41675 4005530d-fff6-0310-9dd1-cebe43e6787f