fix respond_to? for non selected column

fixes #4208

If a query selects only a few columns and gives custom names to
those columns then respond_to? was returning true for the non
selected columns. However calling those non selectd columns
raises exception.

    post = Post.select("'title' as post_title").first

In the above case when `post.body` is invoked then an exception is
raised since `body` attribute is not selected. Howevere `respond_to?`
did not behave correctly.

    pos.respond_to?(:body) #=> true

Reason was that Active Record calls `super` to pass the call to
Active Model and all the columns are defined on Active Model.

Fix is to actually check if the data returned from the db contains
the data for column in question.

@jonleighton can you take a look? You participated in the original issue.