PG: don't write out pg map epoch every handle_activate_map

We don't actually need to write out the pg map epoch on every
activate_map as long as:
a) the osd does not trim past the oldest pg map persisted
b) the pg does update the persisted map epoch from time
to time.

To that end, we now keep a reference to the last map persisted.
The OSD already does not trim past the oldest live OSDMapRef.
Second, handle_activate_map will trim if the difference between
the current map and the last_persisted_map is large enough.

Fixes: #4731
Signed-off-by: Samuel Just <sam.just@inktank.com>
Reviewed-by: Greg Farnum <greg@inktank.com>
(cherry picked from commit 2c5a9f0e178843e7ed514708bab137def840ab89)

Conflicts:

	src/common/config_opts.h
	src/osd/PG.cc
	- last_persisted_osdmap_ref gets set in the non-static
	  PG::write_info