rdma: account for the time spent in MIG_STATE_SETUP through QMP

Using the previous patches, we're now able to timestamp the SETUP
state. Once we have this time, let the user know about it in the
schema.

Reviewed-by: Juan Quintela <quintela@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael R. Hines <mrhines@us.ibm.com>
fixed