Visual C++ 2010 Express support

fixes ValveSoftware/halflife#1338

Changes:
- added project files for Visual C++ 2010 Express
- resolved function calls that would otherwise be ambiguous now
- solved ARRAYSIZE macro and HSPRITE type collisions with Windows.h and
  winsock.h includes by guarding the includes
- "solved" _MSC_VER issues in public/interface.h / inclusion of non-existent file instead of the other content

TODO:
We should think about if we actually should instead link to a .h that
defines / redirects the required macros, so that platform differences
would be limited to a few .cpp files (meaning not including windows.h in a
huge number of files as it is now), see the issue above for details.

TODO2:
Converting the many other .dsp files (the tools) too.