larger cursor (hopefully?) and strip (see desc.)

This strip could be used as a universal "hover" for this small menu
background, indicating which set of controls are being dealt with and
specifically for the cursor to be able to interact with the small menus.
Before I suggested the words stay black until clicked; screw that. I
don't like that. I was tired. They should get white and hover-ish just
like in the controller handling.

You're the pwnage yo