wait and user data

replaces pull request https://github.com/airbnb/stemcell/pull/30

- adds wait option so that we can choose to not wait. keeps the current default behavior to do a wait to get the ip address and display date.
- allows user_data to be passed as a parameter

Pretty basic really. This PR is for ec2admin usage.

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