Fix checks for included recipes
adds name "mongodb" to metadata, very useful when working with Berkshelf
Update definitions/mongodb.rb

This is a fix for bug 89 (https://github.com/edelight/chef-mongodb/issues/89) given a breaking change made between chef 10 and 11 -- see https://github.com/edelight/chef-mongodb/issues/89#issuecomment-13646421 for details. This fix will work in both chef 10 and 11.
Support for building in ssl support from source, and specifying ssl and auth command line params
install package AND build from source if ssl = true