signal to GL backend whether we are probing

This is supposed to reduce the amount of useless error messages shown
during initialization of vo_opengl. If multiple backends are compiled,
usually only one of them will work. For example, on Linux both X and
Wayland backends can be compiled, but usually either Wayland or X is
running. Then, if Wayland is not running, but X is, trying to initialize
the Wayland backend should not spam the terminal with error messages.

Signed-off-by: Andreas Sinz <andreas.sinz@aon.at>
gl_common: add wayland backend before x11 backend