[WFLY-1710] XA recovery warning after HornetQ fail-back

When a HornetQ server is deactivated (after a backup server has failed
over and the original live server is restarted), remove the
corresponding HornetQActivationService (instead of flagging it as
PASSIVE) so that all dependents services are stopped.

Add a HornetQActivationService dependency to the
ResourceAdapterActivatorService started in
PooledConnectionFactoryService.createService()