personal connect script - channels and servers

This reverts commit 7f7c5e064eb2324663b8a100f1aef03c145e2738.
autospawn channels of interest
also spawn xcb but not ii
use freenode as default network
iii: no completion until I fix the broken ^[ suffixes from words
reorder joins and channel list
do not spawn all channels unless said so
iii: bright green for channel-name-prompt color
do not notify of frigg and pancakes messages