avformat: AviSynth demuxer rewrite

Directly loads AviSynth through LoadLibrary instead of relying on
Video for Windows, and supports using AvxSynth (via dlopen) to
open scripts on Linux and OS X.

Error messages from AviSynth/AvxSynth are now reported through
av_log and exit, rather than the traditional behavior of generating
an error video that the user would need to watch to diagnose.

The main rewrite was authored by d s <avxsynth.testing@gmail.com>
from the AvxSynth team, with additional contributions by

Oka Motofumi <chikuzen.mo@gmail.com>
Stephen Hutchinson <qyot27@gmail.com>