Print how many requests are blocked

So that the admin can see the queue grow over time
Don't delete the request if it's in the queue

request_done() should WAIT if the request is blocked in the queue.

It should also be callable by the child thread.  i.e. if the
master says "DONE" when it's in the queue, the child thread MAY
pick it up and call request->process().  Which should just say DONE
and stop
Support site-specific configuration in raddb/local.d
don't forget the makefile