ARM: provide diagnostics on more writeback LDM/STM instructions

The set of circumstances where the writeback register is allowed to be in the
list of registers is rather baroque, but I think this implements them all on
the assembly parsing side.

For disassembly, we still warn about an ARM-mode LDM even if the architecture
revision is < v7 (the required architecture information isn't available). It's
a silly instruction anyway, so hopefully no-one will mind.

rdar://problem/15223374