client: use put_inode on MetaRequest inode refs

When we drop the request inode refs, we need to use put_inode() to ensure
they get cleaned up properly (removed from inode_map, caps released, etc.).
Do this explicitly here (as we do with all other inode put() paths that
matter).

Fixes: #5381
Backport: cuttlefish
Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@inktank.com>
client: fix remaining Inode::put() caller, and make method psuedo-private

Not sure I can make this actually private and make Client::put_inode() a
friend method (making all of Client a friend would defeat the purpose).
This works well enough, though!

Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@inktank.com>
client: send all request put's through put_request()

Make sure all MetaRequest reference put's go through the same path that
releases inode references, including all of the error paths.

Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@inktank.com>
Merge remote-tracking branch 'gh/wip-5381' into wip-mds

Reviewed-by: Greg Farnum <greg@inktank.com>