code cleanup related to Mantis #2845...
straighten out and standardize the differences between the various OPF_SHIP_WING_* argument types
make sure all ships using an OPF_SHIP_WING_* type actually specify and handle the type they need to (removing the ones that don't make sense, e.g. you can't set the orientation of a waypoint)
enforce type safety by clarifying the distinction between "any ship on a team" and "every ship on a team", and splitting the OSWPT_TYPE_TEAM type to accommodate this (which maintains compatibility with the original OPF_SHIP_WING_TEAM type)

git-svn-id: svn://svn.icculus.org/fs2open/trunk/fs2_open@9643 387891d4-d844-0410-90c0-e4c51a9137d3