opts: allow configuration of odb cache size

Currently, the odb cache has a fixed size of 128 slots as defined by
GIT_DEFAULT_CACHE_SIZE. Allow users to set the size of the cache via
git_libgit2_opts().

Fixes #1035.
Recursing into ignored dirs for diff and status

This implements working versions of GIT_DIFF_RECURSE_IGNORED_DIRS
and GIT_STATUS_OPT_RECURSE_IGNORED_DIRS along with some tests for
the newly available behaviors.  This is not turned on by default
for status, but can be accessed via the options to the extended
version of the command.
don't stat until the file is written
Merge pull request #1438 from ethomson/checkout_stat

don't stat until the file is written
Implement GIT_STATUS_OPT_EXCLUDE_SUBMODULES

This option has been sitting unimplemented for a while, so I
finally went through and implemented it along with some tests.

As part of this, I improved the implementation of
GIT_DIFF_IGNORE_SUBMODULES so it be more diligent about avoiding
extra work and about leaving off delta records for submodules to
the greatest extent possible (though it may include them still
if you are request TYPECHANGE records).
Fix some diff ignores and submodule dirty workdir

This started out trying to look at the problems from issue #1425
and gradually grew to a broader set of fixes.  There are two core
things fixed here:

1. When you had an ignore like "/bin" which is rooted at the top
   of your tree, instead of immediately adding the "bin/" entry
   as an ignored item in the diff, we were returning all of the
   direct descendants of the directory as ignored items.  This
   changes things to immediately ignore the directory.  Note that
   this effects the behavior in test_status_ignore__subdirectories
   so that we no longer exactly match core gits ignore behavior,
   but the new behavior probably makes more sense (i.e. we now
   will include an ignored directory inside an untracked directory
   that we previously would have left off).
2. When a submodule only contained working directory changes, the
   diff code was always considering it unmodified which was just
   an outright bug. The HEAD SHA of the submodule matches the SHA
   in the parent repo index, and since the SHAs matches, the diff
   code was overwriting the actual status with UNMODIFIED.

These fixes broke existing tests test_diff_workdir__submodules and
test_status_ignore__subdirectories but looking it over, I actually
think the new results are correct and the old results were wrong.
@nulltoken had actually commented on the subdirectory ignore issue
previously.

I also included in the tests some debugging versions of the
shared iteration callback routines that print status or diff
information.  These aren't used actively in the tests, but can be
quickly swapped in to test code to give a better picture of what
is being scanned in some of the complex test scenarios.
Merge pull request #1439 from arrbee/recurse-ignored-dirs

Several diff and status fixes
Merge pull request #1436 from schu/opts-cache-size

opts: allow configuration of odb cache size
Fix Windows/Win32 warning