Recognize Clang to be a GCC-compatible compiler

Clang aims to be compatible with GCC when it comes to command-line
parameters. Where we enable functionality based on the presence of
a GCC-compiler, we can use the same functionality with Clang.

This patch introduces a new variable CXX_COMPAT_GCC which is true if
the compiler handles the same options as GCC, and this variable is
subsequently used in tests instead of CMAKE_COMPILER_IS_GNUCXX (which
remains if we need to test if we really have GCC, e.g. for version)