Implement configurable error_logger msg drop threshold

Implement a new config option error_logger_hwm, which is a number
representing how many messages per second we should log from the
error_logger. If that threshold is exceeded, messages will be discarded
for the remainder of that second.

This is only effective if lager itself can process the messages fast
enough to satisfy the threshold. If your threshold is 1000 and lager
itself is only writing 100 messages a second (because error messages are
causing fsyncs or whatever) you'll never exceed the threshold and drops
will never happen. Thus care needs to be taken when selecting this
feature.

Setting it low is not as bad as it might seem, because when using lager,
hopefully error_logger messages are unusual. In my testing, 50/second
with the default config seemed reasonable (which has 2 file backends
installed, both of which fsync on messages at error or above).
A few small things:

1. Add set_high_water/1 to adjust the high water mark after startup
2. Add test func t0/0 to demo (interactively only, sorry) that the
   limiting is working as we expect).
3. Remove a couple of comments.