net: add DialOpt, the extensible Dial w/ options dialer

Add DialOpt. So we have:

func Dial(net, addr string) (Conn, error)
func DialTimeout(net, addr string, timeout time.Duration) (Conn, error)
func DialOpt(addr string, opts ...DialOption) (Conn, error)

DialTimeout (and Dial) are regrettable in retrospect. Maybe
in a future Go we'll be back down to one Dial, with DialOpt
becoming Dial.

DialOpt looks like:

c, err := net.DialOpt("google.com:80")  // tcp is default
c, err := net.DialOpt("google.com:80", net.Timeout(30 * time.Second))
c, err := net.DialOpt("google.com:80", net.TCPFastOpen())
c, err := net.DialOpt("google.com:80", net.LocalAddr(..))
c, err := net.DialOpt("google.com:53", net.Network("udp6"))

And then: (clustered in godoc)

type DialOption interface { /* private only */ }
  func Deadline(time.Time) DialOption
  func LocalAddr(Addr) DialOption
  func Network(string) DialOption
  func TCPFastOpen() DialOption
  func Timeout(time.Duration) DialOption

I'm pretty confident we could add Happy Eyeballs to this too.

Fixes issue 3097
Update issue 3610
Update issue 4842

R=golang-dev, r, dave, minux.ma, rsc
CC=golang-dev
https://codereview.appspot.com/7365049