crush: invalidate rmap on create (and thus decode)

If we have an existing CrushWrapper object and decode from a bufferlist,
reset build_rmaps so that they get rebuilt.

Remove the build_rmaps() all in decode that was useless on a redecode
(because have_rmaps == true in that case and it did nothing).

Fixes: #6442
Backport: dumpling, maybe cuttlefish
Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@inktank.com>
Reviewed-by: Joao Eduardo Luis <joao.luis@inktank.com>
(cherry picked from commit 9b7a2ae329b6a511064dd3d6e549ba61f52cfd21)