client:  Unify session close handling

If mds failure causes client reconnect while the
client is unmounting, the client will send a session
close request to the mds even if there are outstanding
inodes in the cache waiting to receive flush_acks.   This
causes the mds to send back a session close message and
the client closes the connection, so that when the mds tries
to send flush acks back to the client, they get dropped, resulting
in the client hanging on unmount.  The pattern for this bug is:

1. mds restart
2. client sends session open request
3. client unmount sets unmounting flag and waits for flush_acks
4. mds sends session open reply
5. client sends session close request (because its unmounting)
6. mds sends session close, client closes connection
7. mds tries to send flush_acks, but drops them because the connection
is gone

This patch unifies the session close handling so that the client
only sends a session close in unmount once all flush acks have been
received.  If the mds restarts during session close, the reconnect
logic will kick the session close waiter so that session close requests
are re-sent for session close replies not yet received.

Signed-off-by: Sam Lang <sam.lang@inktank.com>
mds: Delay export on missing inodes for reconnect

The reconnect caps sent by the client on reconnect may not have
inodes found in the inode cache until after clientreplay (when
the client creates a new file, for example). Currently, we send an
export for that cap to the client if we don't see an inode in the cache
and path_is_mine() returns false (for example, if the client didn't
send a path because the file was already unlinked).
Instead, we want to delay handling of the reconnect cap until
clientreplay completes.

This patch modifies handle_client_reconnect() so that we don't assume
the cap isn't ours if we don't have an inode for it, but instead delay
recovery for later. An export cap message is only sent if the inode exists
and the cap isn't ours (non-auth) during reconnect. If any remaining
recovered caps exist in the recovered list once the mds goes active, we
send export messages at that point.

Also, after removing the path_is_mine check,
MDCache::parallel_fetch_traverse_dir() needs to skip non-auth dirfrags.

Fixes #4451.
Signed-off-by: Sam Lang <sam.lang@inktank.com>
Signed-off-by: Yan, Zheng <zheng.z.yan@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Yan, Zheng <zheng.z.yan@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Greg Farnum <greg@inktank.com>