[master] Changes for https://java.net/jira/browse/GRIZZLY-1603 (Make HTTP Host header parsing lazy).

(cherry picked from commit 0c36aed022f88bbc45e7f22749a9f868f509a0c6)
[master] Changes for https://java.net/jira/browse/GRIZZLY-1604 (notifyTransferEncodingParse is called instead of notifyTransferEncodingSerialize in HttpCodecFilter.serializeWithTransferEncoding).