Fixed several build paths (I think...)

This whole thing is a bit of a mess. I'm going to have to draw up a
diagram of what goes where at some point -- this commit will need to be
revisited.

Signed-off-by: Luke Stuyvenberg <stuyvenberg@wisc.edu>
Added some forgotten VS10 projects

Also fixed QCam's search paths. (I believe these oversights are also
present in the MM repository; we should probably let them know.)

Signed-off-by: Luke Stuyvenberg <stuyvenberg@wisc.edu>
Vastly improved build-openspim.sh

I know eventually I'll have to un-sillify it (professionalism and such),
but until that day, it shall contain emoticons as prescribed.

Anyway, it now multitasks, building MMCore/mmstudio, then the DALs (Cube
and OpenSPIM (to be renamed Picard), for now), and finally the
Micro-Manager plugins (which don't seem to be compiling to the correct
place; this will require investigation.)

Signed-off-by: Luke Stuyvenberg <stuyvenberg@wisc.edu>