smtp.c: Fixed failure detection during TLS upgrade

smtp_state_upgrade_tls() would attempt to incorrectly complete the
upgrade to smtps and start the EHLO command if
Curl_ssl_connect_nonblocking() returned a failure code and if ssldone
was set to TRUE. This would only happen when a non-blocking API hadn't
been provided by the SSL implementation and curlssl_connect() was
called underneath.