Cancel Button: switching from native dialog to jquery ui modal dialog

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the great js cleansing
update jquery
size fix
great css cleansing
template cleanup
base_template: match the form template
goblin.css: dialog titlebar and text color change

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changed to jquery 1.9.1 min
jquery-ui: min css, new theme

theme: smoothness

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only need one copy of jquery

keep it in media for now
dialog: font-size adjustment
dialog: sizing tweaks

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