upgrade jruby dependencies
Merge pull request #12095 from kassio/upgrade-jruby-gems

Upgrade jruby dependencies
Do not dup the binds when visiting the AST

The visitor have to consume the bind parameters to make the statements
work when the prepared statement option is disabled.

Fixes #12023
Revert "reconnect after the fork returns"

This reverts commit baf5f47b8768c7ec0164ed5ab60e369cdd936d71.

Reason: This is breaking the sqlite3 tests with a missing transacion.
Could not investigate right now.

cc @tenderlove
Don't need to check if the scope respond to call

We are checking this when defining the default scope and raising an
ArgumentError
Revert "Do not dup the binds when visiting the AST"

This reverts commit 71ff7d9c6592b93e2c810a1f464943dd7bd02c7f.

Reason: I need to check with @jeremy if we can do this.