ISPN-2738 Joining node ignored by hotrod clients in REPL clustering mode

https://issues.jboss.org/browse/ISPN-2738

Skip the topology update if the cache members aren't all in the address
cache. Do the check in AbstractEncoder1x.generateTopologyResponse, so that
it works for all topology types (i.e. also for replicated caches).

I added a new replicated-mode test, but it still doesn't cover this case.