fixed vagrant testing by moving up include_recipe block for database set...

...up

Seems not to be an issue with mysql::ruby.

Tried a test with current ruby cookbook and included mysql::ruby there. Works.

Now i found out testing works when providing the inclusion above in gitlabs default.rb 

Seems to be an issue with some of the providers used before (??). Or some parallel thing in the new chef 11.

The apt-get update running is NOT caused by apt cookbook, it is build-esssential for me, that updates in the mentioned fix.