DOCS-1719 DOCS-1841 near operator

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DOCS-1719 and DOCS-1841: edits
DOCS-1589: Document the impact of having a hidden node being stopped and restarted regularly

Signed-off-by: Sam Kleinman <samk@10gen.com>
DOCS-1589: edits
DOCS-1842: Confusion in the Remove Shards from Cluster tutorial

Signed-off-by: Sam Kleinman <samk@10gen.com>