Soften wording about knowing other devs.

Many people don't, so point them to a place where they can meet
some.
Flesh out feedback portion of contributing guide.

I don't know of anyone that hangs out in #rails-contrib, and we should
also let people know that feedback can take some time.
Add note about features vs. bugs.

Sometimes people ask what makes a feature and what makes a bug, so
let's clarify that so we can show it to people later.