[ffmpeg] fix shared library versions
Merge pull request #2621 from wsnipex/ffmpeg-lib-versions

[ffmpeg] fix shared library versions (closes #14274)
[fix] upnp: parentID of the root container should be -1, fixes #14279
fix missing "Connected" and "Not connected" strings since fa815d7 (fixes #14280)
[fix] old path for musicvideo nodes in upnp music share
[WIN32] fixed: forgot to update windows package list.