Correct searchd port number in monit group name

The default searchd port is 9312.
Specify environment when starting/stopping searchd
Fix argument order so that /engineyard/bin/thinking_sphinx_searchd can work with it.
effectively revert previous commit, and pass framework environment to monitrc
Merge branch 'sphinx_fixes' of https://github.com/majoritythird/ey-cloud-recipes into majoritythird-sphinx_fixes

Conflicts:
	cookbooks/sphinx/templates/default/sphinx.monitrc.erb

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  - Update README

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Edited cookbooks/sphinx/README.md via GitHub
Edited cookbooks/exim/README.rdoc via GitHub
  - Remove old MongoDB recipe and replace it with a more updated recipe
    supporting replica sets journaling enabled by default.  It is
    provided as is, with no support provided currently.
  - Additionally there is no backup support in this recipe yet.

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  - Remove the reference to require_recipe mongodb in
    main/recipes/default.rb.  As the documentation now asks you to add
    this, it feels appropriate to remove this.

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Edited caveats to make the required instances sizes more clear
smallish changes
Fix typo: "staus" => "status" (thanks nbibler!)
  - Removing old outdated postgresql 8.3 recipe.

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  - Update postgresql9 recipe to the current version with backups
    working properly again.

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  - Clean up README

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  - Fix it so the attributes no longer error out when no utility
    instances are booted.
  - Make it so that it does not run on 32-bit platforms as that can
    damage your data.

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  - Hardening the mongodb recipe so it does not fail at compile time for
    users without utility instances (who are not even activating said
    recipe)

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Restart DJ processes with the new application code.
Remove superfluous 'h' in the previous commit.