Don't TransactionIdDidAbort in HeapTupleGetUpdateXid

It is dangerous to do so, because some code expects to be able to see what's
the true Xmax even if it is aborted (particularly while traversing HOT
chains).  So don't do it, and instead rely on the callers to verify for
abortedness, if necessary.

Several race conditions and bugs fixed in the process.

This also reverts commit c235a6a589b, which is no longer necessary.

Andres Freund
Fix a couple of bugs in MultiXactId freezing

Both heap_freeze_tuple() and heap_tuple_needs_freeze() neglected to look
into a multixact to check the members against cutoff_xid.  This means
that a very old Xid could survive hidden within a multi, possibly
outliving its CLOG storage.  In the distant future, this would cause
clog lookup failures:
ERROR:  could not access status of transaction 3883960912
DETAIL:  Could not open file "pg_clog/0E78": No such file or directory.

This mostly was problematic when the updating transaction aborted, since
in that case the row wouldn't get pruned away earlier in vacuum and the
multixact could possibly survive for a long time.  In many cases, data
that is inaccessible for this reason way can be brought back
heuristically.

As a second bug, heap_freeze_tuple() didn't properly handle multixacts
that need to be frozen according to cutoff_multi, but whose updater xid
is still alive.  Instead of preserving the update Xid, it just set Xmax
invalid, which leads to both old and new tuple versions becoming
visible.  This is pretty rare in practice, but a real threat
nonetheless.  Existing corrupted rows, unfortunately, cannot be repaired
in an automated fashion.

Following code analysis caused by bug report by J Smith in message
CADFUPgc5bmtv-yg9znxV-vcfkb+JPRqs7m2OesQXaM_4Z1JpdQ@mail.gmail.com
and privately by F-Secure.

Backpatch to 9.3, where freezing of MultiXactIds was introduced.

Analysis and patch by Andres Freund, with some tweaks by Álvaro.