Add indexUUID to mapping-updated and mapping-refresh events and make sure they are applied to an index with same UUID.

This can go wrong if indices with the same name are repeatably created and deleted.

UUIDs can not be null anymore. If UUID is not available `_na_` will be used as a value.

Also - some minor clean up in ShardStateAction where shard started events could be added twice to the to-be-applied list where the second instance will be ignored.

Closes #3783