Use symbols instead of strings

ActiveSupport::Concern is used all over Rails
This PR will only create 3 new objects as keys are never recreated and
are not subject to garbage collection.

The strings were being uniquely created and garbage collected. I don't
have any performance numbers but this should be better than all of the
GC.
Making the rake file for tests easier to read.

I'm defining a new class which modularizes how the `rake test` tasks are
defined and invoked.
Improved grammar and replaced 'dbs' slang with 'databases'
Removing not useful test related to reflect_on_all_associations

The comment in the test pretty much summarizes the issue.
`FIXME these assertions bust a lot`

Adding any type of association in class `Firm` will break this test.

I removed some deprecated stuff and this test failed.

I do not think this test provides any useful value. First of all who
counted last that 39 is the right number of associations.

Secondly there are a large number of tests which depend on reflection
returning right information about associations. Those tests will start
failing if there is a bug in the code.
update test names in testing guide [ci-skip]
Merge pull request #11244 from ccarruitero/testing-guide

update test names in testing guide [ci-skip]
Merge pull request #11240 from neerajdotname/remove-not-useful-test

Removing not useful test related to reflect_on_all_associations
Removed support for deprecated `counter_sql`
Merge pull request #11241 from neerajdotname/deprecated-counter-sql

Removed support for deprecated `counter_sql`
Add CHANGELOG enty for #11235
Removed support for deprecated `finder_sql` in associations.
fix indentation
use extract_options!
Merge pull request #11251 from neerajdotname/deprecated-finder-sql

Removed support for deprecated finder sql
Merge pull request #11252 from neerajdotname/use-extract-options

use extract_options!
Removed support for deprecated `insert_sql` in associations.
Merge pull request #11253 from neerajdotname/removed-insert-sql

Removed support for deprecated `insert_sql` in associations.
resolve aliases before passing the hash to the predicate builder
no need to to_sym the column name, leave it as-is
Removed support for deprecated `delete_sql` in associations.