default to state 'ready' which doesn't react to state changes (default also because all server-side stuff will go this state 100%). also introduced config.stateaware (which can as always be set per moduleinstance through data-mod-config-stateaware) which changes this after-bin state from 'ready' to 'bound', which means it's picked up by 'update' . From there the entire cyclus of reacting to state is picked up.
this fixes #60 and fixes #61