Fixed: Removing an item from a menu also removes its highlight state

Previously when a menu item was instantiated outside of the context of the menu itself, its highlight state was maintained even after it was removed from the menu. If the menu was dismissed with the item highlighted, and then the item was used in another menu (e.g., re-added to a context menu for a table row) it would appear highlighted, even though the menu highlight index was not set.

This commit ensures that when removing items from a menu that the highlight state of the underlying view is set to NO as well.

Tests for this behaviour are included as well.

Fixes #1899