Fix CreditCard scope in Order

Model.all is deprecated in Rails 4
Clean DEPRECATION WARNINGS from within spree code

Most of these are related to `find_by` with options and `Model.all`
Use a awesome_nested_set github fork for Rails 4

Help us get rid of the thousands of warnings due to an AR deprecation on
how to access connection from an instance, no rc for that gem has been
relased at this moment
Upgrade jquery-rails to ~> 3.0.0

So that users can try rails4 branch more easily, without errors when
bundling spree within a Rails 4 app

[Fixes #3178] [Fixes #3227]
Add deface back to spree gemspec

Now that we have a rc that supports Rails 4
Clean up a few more deprecation warnings

Related to `Model.all` and `Model.with_exclusive_scope`
Set failing spec on postgres as pending

We need to get a rails issue fixed first to fix this one
see #10995

[Fixed #3234]