osd/PG: rename require_same_or_newer_map -> is_same_or_newer_map

This avoids confusion with the OSD method of the same name, and better
matches what the function tests (and does not do).

Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@inktank.com>
(cherry picked from commit ba7e815a18cad110525f228db1b3fe39e011409e)

Conflicts:

	src/osd/ReplicatedPG.cc
osd: mark down connections from old peers

Close out any connection with an old peer.  This avoids a race like:

- peer marked down
- we get map, mark down the con
- they reconnect and try to send us some stuff
- we share our map to tell them they are old and dead, but leave the con
  open
...
- peer marks itself up a few times, eventually reuses the same port
- sends messages on their fresh con
- we discard because of our old con

This could cause a tight reconnect loop, but it is better than wrong
behavior.

Other possible fixes:
 - make addr nonce truly unique (augment pid in nonce)
 - make a smarter 'disposable' msgr state (bleh)

Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@inktank.com>
(cherry picked from commit 881e9d850c6762290f8be24da9e74b9dc112f1c9)