Add option to perform real login in check_oracle

The Oracle plugin has no option for testing for a successful login.  The
closest option to this is --login, which uses a fixed set of credentials and
expects to receive the logon failure error code.

This patch adds an option called --connect.  This option takes a full SID and
returns success if it doesn't detect any error codes.  With this, we can check
that a database is allowing logins from valid credentials (and avoid filling up
DB logs with failed authentications).
NEWS, THANKS: Mention check_oracle --connect flag
Fixed SF.net bug 3539317, typo in --help of check_apt
Fixed SF.net bug 3602586, added timeout option for check_nagios
Fixed SF.net bug 3560976, added --include-type/-N option
NEWS, THANKS: Mention Richard Leitner's changes