pg_upgrade:  don't copy/link files for invalid indexes

Now that pg_dump no longer dumps invalid indexes, per commit
683abc73dff549e94555d4020dae8d02f32ed78b, have pg_upgrade also skip
them.  Previously pg_upgrade threw an error if invalid indexes existed.

Backpatch to 9.2, 9.1, and 9.0 (where pg_upgrade was added to git)