fix privat icons dir and make files for automake-1.13 

to avoid
%{_datadir}/mate-file-manager/icons/hicolor/*/emblems/emblem-note.png

complete autoconf output.

DEBUG: cut-n-paste-code/libegg/Makefile.am:5: warning: 'INCLUDES' is the old name for 'AM_CPPFLAGS' (or '*_CPPFLAGS')
DEBUG: eel/Makefile.am:111: warning: '%'-style pattern rules are a GNU make extension
DEBUG: eel/Makefile.am:115: warning: '%'-style pattern rules are a GNU make extension
DEBUG: eel/Makefile.am:116: warning: subst -,_,$*: non-POSIX variable name
DEBUG: eel/Makefile.am:116: (probably a GNU make extension)
DEBUG: eel/Makefile.am:5: warning: 'INCLUDES' is the old name for 'AM_CPPFLAGS' (or '*_CPPFLAGS')
DEBUG: libcaja-extension/Makefile.am:79: warning: addprefix $(srcdir: non-POSIX variable name
DEBUG: libcaja-extension/Makefile.am:79: (probably a GNU make extension)
DEBUG: libcaja-extension/Makefile.am:7: warning: 'INCLUDES' is the old name for 'AM_CPPFLAGS' (or '*_CPPFLAGS')
DEBUG: libcaja-private/Makefile.am:211: warning: '%'-style pattern rules are a GNU make extension
DEBUG: libcaja-private/Makefile.am:212: warning: subst -,_,$*: non-POSIX variable name
DEBUG: libcaja-private/Makefile.am:212: (probably a GNU make extension)
DEBUG: libcaja-private/Makefile.am:214: warning: '%'-style pattern rules are a GNU make extension
DEBUG: libcaja-private/Makefile.am:5: warning: 'INCLUDES' is the old name for 'AM_CPPFLAGS' (or '*_CPPFLAGS')
DEBUG: src/Makefile.am:183: warning: '%'-style pattern rules are a GNU make extension
DEBUG: src/Makefile.am:187: warning: '%'-style pattern rules are a GNU make extension
DEBUG: src/Makefile.am:188: warning: subst -,_,$*: non-POSIX variable name
DEBUG: src/Makefile.am:188: (probably a GNU make extension)
DEBUG: src/Makefile.am:16: warning: 'INCLUDES' is the old name for 'AM_CPPFLAGS' (or '*_CPPFLAGS')
DEBUG: src/file-manager/Makefile.am:63: warning: '%'-style pattern rules are a GNU make extension
DEBUG: src/file-manager/Makefile.am:67: warning: '%'-style pattern rules are a GNU make extension
DEBUG: src/file-manager/Makefile.am:68: warning: subst -,_,$*: non-POSIX variable name
DEBUG: src/file-manager/Makefile.am:68: (probably a GNU make extension)
DEBUG: src/file-manager/Makefile.am:5: warning: 'INCLUDES' is the old name for 'AM_CPPFLAGS' (or '*_CPPFLAGS')
DEBUG: test/Makefile.am:3: warning: 'INCLUDES' is the old name for 'AM_CPPFLAGS' (or '*_CPPFLAGS')