Add refit argument to anova.merMod + documentation (Issue #141)

Pull request offering the first solution sketched in Issue #141, it simply adds a refit argument to anova.merMod. This allows one to decide whether or not to refit objects of class `lmerMod` with ML when passing them to the anova method.

The code does the following:
- The default behavior remains the same: models are refitted.
- If models are actucally refitted, a message is thrown (this is new).
- If refitting is turned off and the models are inconsistently fitted (some REML, some ML), a warning is thrown. (This should perhaps produce an error instead of a warning).


```
fm1 <- lmer(Reaction ~ Days + (Days | Subject), sleepstudy)
fm2 <- lmer(Reaction ~ Days + (Days || Subject), sleepstudy)

anova(fm1, fm2)  # refits with message.

anova(fm1, fm2, refit = FALSE)  # doesn't refit.

fm2b <- lmer(Reaction ~ Days + (Days || Subject), sleepstudy, REML=FALSE)

anova(fm1, fm2)  # refits with message.

anova(fm1, fm2b, refit = FALSE)  # doesn't refit but produces a warning.
```

Additionally I added the following to the documentation (`merMod-class.Rd`):
- The usage part of the anova method (`\S3method`) + documentation of its arguments.
- A new section (`S3 methods`) listing the documented S3 methods and what they are doing (text basically taken from the `lme4.0` documentation), as suggested in the second row of `lmer.R`.

After the changes, the package runs a simple `R CMD check` without any additional notes or warnings.

Please let me know if this is okay as is, or if I should change certain things.