JBTM-1616 updated to disable valgrind temporarily
Revert "JBTM-1616 updated to disable valgrind temporarily"

This reverts commit fe0afc188655a238c98ee1e96590031767c1836d.
JBTM-1616 disabled the show-reachable parameter
JBTM-1623 reduce the amount of memory required
Make sure we check for JBOSS_HOME
JBTM-1650 updat to set session TPEV_DISCONIMM when socket closed
JBTM-1650 don't set TPEV_DISCONIMM on windows