Register correct handlers for nvlist_{dup,pack,unpack}

This change is related to commit 81eaf15 which ensured the correct
allocation handlers were installed for nvlist_alloc().  The nvlist
functions nvlist_dup(), nvlist_pack(), and nvlist_unpack() suffer
from the same issue and have been updated accordingly.

Signed-off-by: Ned Bass <bass6@llnl.gov>
Signed-off-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Issue #1937
Properly handle updates of variably-sized SA entries.

During the update process in sa_modify_attrs(), the sizes of existing
variably-sized SA entries are obtained from sa_lengths[]. The case where
a variably-sized SA was being replaced neglected to increment the index
into sa_lengths[], so subsequent variable-length SAs would be rewritten
with the wrong length. This patch adds the missing increment operation
so all variably-sized SA entries are stored with their correct lengths.

Previously, a size-changing update of a variably-sized SA that occurred
when there were other variably-sized SAs in the bonus buffer would cause
the subsequent SAs to be corrupted.  The most common case in which this
would occur is when a mode change caused the ZPL_DACL_ACES entry to
change size when a ZPL_DXATTR (SA xattr) entry already existed.

The following sequence would have caused a failure when xattr=sa was in
force and would corrupt the bonus buffer:

	open(filename, O_WRONLY | O_CREAT, 0600);
	...
	lsetxattr(filename, ...);	/* create xattr SA */
	chmod(filename, 0650);		/* enlarges the ACL */

Signed-off-by: Chris Dunlop <chris@onthe.net.au>
Signed-off-by: Ned Bass <bass6@llnl.gov>
Signed-off-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Closes #1978