move sccp_softkey_setSoftkeyState(d, KEYMODE_CONNCONF, SKINNY_LBL_JOIN, FALSE), do not set things in indicate.c

git-svn-id: https://svn.code.sf.net/p/chan-sccp-b/code/trunk@4396 43c1dc8c-776e-4df2-8ef1-6e829299be21