Close #19378: address flaws in the new dis module APIs

- confusing line_offset parameter -> first_line parameter
- systematically test and fix new file parameter
- remove redundant Bytecode.show_info() API
- rename Bytecode.display_code() to Bytecode.dis() and have it
  return the multi-line string rather than printing it directly
- eliminated some not-so-helpful helpers from the bytecode_helper
  test support module

Also fixed a longstanding defect (worked around in the test suite)
where lines emitted by the dis module could include trailing white
space. That no longer happens, allowing the formatting tests to be
simplified to use plain string comparisons.
Fix typo in updated dis docs
Remove incorrect comment from dis tests