LU-1602 ldlm: Fix flock deadlock detection race

Deadlock isn't detected if 2 threads are trying to
grant 2 locks which deadlock on each other.
They call ldlm_flock_deadlock() simultaneously
and deadlock ins't detected.

The soulition is to add lock to blocking list before
calling ldlm_flock_deadlock()

Xyratex-bug-id: MRP-412
Signed-off-by: Andriy Skulysh <Andriy_Skulysh@xyratex.com>
Reviewed-by: Vitaly Fertman <vitaly_fertman@xyratex.com>
Reviewed-by: Bruce Korb <bruce_korb@xyratex.com>
Change-Id: I437c8b40a58de14bbac3da39d98d0f03d0f2e064
Reviewed-on: http://review.whamcloud.com/3277
Tested-by: Hudson
Tested-by: Maloo <whamcloud.maloo@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Keith Mannthey <keith.mannthey@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Oleg Drokin <oleg.drokin@intel.com>