ARM: fix folding of stack-adjustment (yet again).

When trying to eliminate an "sub sp, sp, #N" instruction by folding
it into an existing push/pop using dummy registers, we need to account
for the fact that this might affect precisely how "fp" gets set in the
prologue.

We were attempting this, but assuming that *whenever* we performed a
fold it would make a difference. This is false, for example, in:
    push {r4, r7, lr}
    add fp, sp, #4
    vpush {d8}
    sub sp, sp, #8

we can fold the "sub" into the "vpush", forming "vpush {d7, d8}".
However, in that case the "add fp" instruction mustn't change, which
we were getting wrong before.

Should fix PR18160.