Remove some apple remote leftovers

The options and key names don't do anything anymore.
vcd_read_win32.h: fix compilation on MinGW-w64

ntddcdrm.h is no longer under the 'ddk' directory in MinGW-w64,
and since MPV focuses on it instead of the old MinGW32, there's no
reason to keep that dir prefix, as it stops VCD support from being
built at all for Windows.
stream_cddb: fix compilation on MinGW-w64

Like the VCD case, stream_cddb.c relies on ntddcdrm.h, which is no
longer under the ddk directory.