AI support power activation needs to go through order manager

fixes a desync whenever it will do so only on the host

+island map AI which will only build navy / air force to test
it and have a suitable bot for those map types (fixes pathfinder
eating up all CPU because it can't reach you with ground units)
Merge pull request #2768 from Mailaender/bot-hotfixes

Fix Desync when Bots fire Super Weapons