dns, cares: don't filter NOTIMP, REFUSED, SERVFAIL

Report the aforementioned DNS server failure codes as-is, stop c-ares
from reporting them as ARES_ECONNREFUSED.

Reported by Steve Freegard.
gitignore: Ignore release tarballs and shasum files
buffer: optimize Buffer.prototype.toString('hex')

Move the implementation to C++ land. The old JS implementation used
string concatenation, was dog slow and consumed copious amounts of
memory for large buffers. Example:

  var buf = Buffer(0x1000000);  // 16 MB
  buf.toString('hex')           // Used 3+ GB of memory.

The new implementation operates in O(n) time and space.

Fixes #4700.
debugger: Make the debugger timeout configurable

If the NODE_DEBUGGER_TIMEOUT environment variable is set, then use
that as the number of ms to wait for the debugger to start.

This is primarily to work around a race condition that almost never
happens in real usage with the debugger, but happens EVERY FRACKING
TIME when the debugger tests run as part of 'make test'.
buffer: optimize Buffer.prototype.write(s, 'hex')

Move the implementation to C++ land. This is similar to commit 3f65916
but this time for the write() function and the Buffer(s, 'hex')
constructor.

Speeds up the benchmark below about 24x (2.6s vs 1:02m).

  var s = 'f';
  for (var i = 0; i < 26; ++i) s += s;  // 64 MB
  Buffer(s, 'hex');