renamed some items to avoid name clashes

* ic2 pump = electric pump
* rp2 pump = blulectric pump
* bc3 wrench = pipe wrench
* harvestcraft string = cotton string
* marked TE silver ore and rp2 silver ore as compatible
* marked iron and gold ingot recipes as compatible
* marked cakes and cookies as compatible
remove duplicated diamond tool recipes from rp2, use anchor notation
compatibility declaration, conflict detection
conflict detection