refs #669 Add a hacked path for removing by _id. Add a test that
verifies separate threads can delete adjacent _id index keys without
conflict.
fixed path to upgrade the indexes for system.users #673 #674

This makes sure we correctly serialize the index metadata on upgrade of
the index for system.users, and adds code to fix collections corrupted by
startup, to fix #674.
misc cleanup while investigating #673 and #674
added a test for #673 and #674

fixes #673
fixes #674
Merge pull request #676 from Tokutek/bugs/672

merge fixes for system.users index upgrade path
Merge pull request #669 from Tokutek/removeidhack2

Add a hacked path for removing by _id.
Merge branch 'bugfixes/tokumx-1.3' into releases/tokumx-1.3